Stop the hate. Stop the bullying. Seriously, accept the fact that we are not alike in qualities/physicalities. The children of our generation suffer from judgments and the wrath of the bullies. It’s not hate, It’s more of an envy or an obsession. You bully someone, because you see in them what you do not find in you. Might not be very visible but beauty on the inside matters more than your outer beauty. If you have the time to look in the mirror and see what’s wrong with your face, your body, your skin, your hair, maybe you should try to look deeper than the usual, try looking for what’s different with your attitude and personality towards people.
Self-uplifting always gives you the boost of confidence, but there’s a fine line in being confident to being boastfully confident of yourself. If you really are beautiful, you don’t need to brag. Let people see & judge if you truly are one of a kind. To those who say they are fat, they are too skinny, they are ugly, they are so tall for their age, too short to fit in, their teeth is crooked, they don’t have a nice smile, they have nappy hair, they have freckles, etc, should embrace their difference because that is what makes them unique from others. And that’s a major check for me, I am gay with dark complexion, lumpy skin(face), stretchmarks, hyper pigmentation to most of my body parts, wavy hair, fat and tall, but look at me, I accepted that I was born this way, and my mama always told me that I am beautiful on the inside and out(I’m cool with that LOL). Jokes aside, these features are given to me because I can go through this situation or I can cope up with this situation.
Bullies they are obsessed of who we are, we can always think that the reason why they hated us is because we serve as an inspiration to them and instead of letting go of their frustrations to themselves; they let it out to vulnerable people like us; but nevertheless we still serve as an “idol” to them(sounds Pagan, LOL again). People like us must understand why they are like that because we are a light-year ahead of them(We can be compared to a speeding car while the bullies are still a bunny, see the evolution, see the difference), why?Because unlike them we can understand beyond, compared to how they can, we have an open-mind. They can always bully us on the outside but they can never ever touch & ruin our beauty on the inside. They can destroy our lives, yes they can, but WE WILL NOT LET THEM. Bullies are coward people belligerent for acceptance. Just like us they want it badly to be accepted but the only dissimilarity is We are STRONG in our minds, hearts and souls.
We cannot let them run our lives, this is our wheel to steer and this is our car that will get us to the finish line, which is eternal happiness and a peaceful life, don’t let them affect you, let them be affected by how different you can be, and how extraordinarily beautiful you are. Love yourself because you are beaYOUtiful.